The judge: your master of destruction on your team leader journey

“We don’t live a life; we live a pattern.”

Dr. Shafali

Judges are universal spoilers that plague everyone. Someone constantly lashes out at your mistakes or shortcomings and obsessively warns you of future risks.

Your judge activates your other saboteurs, causing stress and unhappiness, reducing your effectiveness, and ruining your relationships.

The judge works with one or more co-conspiratorial saboteurs to hijack your mind and cause most of your frustration. Does this sound familiar to you?

 Three disruptors could affect your business and relationships as a team leader. 

The Avoider saboteur

We are focusing on the positive and pleasant in a powerful way. Avoid complex and unpleasant tasks and conflicts.

Controller the controller

Fear-based leaders need to take responsibility and control people's situations and behavior according to their will—high anxiety and impatience when this is impossible.

The hyper achiever saboteur

Rely on consistent performance and performance to gain self-esteem and self-affirmation. The latest achievements will soon be discounted as more is needed.

All saboteurs Motivate you through negative emotions such are fear, stress, anger, guilt, shame, insecurity, etc. Staying in negative emotion hurts the ability to see clearly and respond with empathy, curiosity, creativity, or laser-focused action. The good news is that you can successfully win the battle against your saboteur by using The positive intelligence science-based seven-week program. 15 minutes/day for seven-week, + 30 minutes of coaching per week, will lower your saboteur’s power and grow your inner strength. This will set you up for thriving as a leader, entrepreneur, and manager.

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Rod Ambara, Positive Intelligence coach at Tucamino Coaching.

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